
The caller complained, “I’ve been sad all my life. I’ve been to many therapists and none have been able to help me get rid of my sadness. Do you think you can help me?”
Since I have seen many similar cases like this before, I told the caller, “I have a good hunch on what is going on. Come on over and lets see if I can help.” After briefly treating the person, the sadness was gone and it has stayed that way ever since. I have treated hundreds of these situations where individuals have been able to experience release of seemingly hopeless issues. What has made the difference?
There is a growing body of research showing that babies in the womb feel, taste, learn, and have some level of consciousness. One study had babies in the womb receiving “vibroacoustic stimulation” (Gonzalez-Gonzalez et al., 2006). That is a fancy way of saying sound waves were transmitted. For comparison purposes, there was also a control group that did not receive the treatment. After they were born, the babies who had received the stimulation were again given the same treatment. The result was that these babies recognized the signal and tended to calm down after receiving the signal. The researchers concluded that fetal life is able to learn and memorize with this capacity lasting into neonatal life (post-birth).
In other research, Anthony DeCasper and William Fifer created a nipple that was connected to an audio device (Kolata, 1984). This nipple test was given to 10 newborn babies. If a child sucked in one way they would hear their mother’s voice. Sucking in a different pattern would cause the child to hear another woman’s voice. The researchers found that the babies sucked in a way to hear their mothers. The same experiment was done using the sound of the mother’s heart beat and that of a male voice. The result was that the babies sucked in such a way as to hear the mother’s heart beat more often than the male voice.
DeCasper later did another test where he had sixteen pregnant women read a children’s book. They read the book out aloud twice a day for the last 6.5 weeks of their pregnancy. Once born, the babies were given the nipple test previously mentioned where they could listen either to their mother reading the original children’s book that was used or another book. The babies sucked to hear the original children’s book. What DeCasper concluded was that a prenatal auditory experience can influence auditory preferences after birth.
An author and well known obstetrician, Christiane Northrup (2005) shares that if a pregnant mother is going through high levels of fear or anxiety she creates a “metabolic cascade.” Hormones known as cytokines are produced and the mother’s immune system is affected, including her child’s. Chronic anxiety in the mother can set the stage for a whole array of trauma based results such as prematurity, complications of birth, death, and miscarriage. The opposite is also true. When the mother is feeling healthy and happy, she produces oxytocin. This is often called the molecule of belonging. The presence of this component creates feelings of bonding and strengthens immunity in the baby. Neurotransmitters moving inside the mother’s body creates a chemical and physical imprint on the baby’s brain and body. The message imprinted is that there is safety and peace. The baby feels secure and taken care of.
Can a baby learn while in the womb? The research seems to point in that direction. In terms of mental health, can this be a clue to psychological issues adults exhibit? In some cases, I think so. I feel this way, not because I have done peer-reviewed research on the matter, but because of the hundreds that I have treated for their fetal life traumas. They experienced significant or total reduction of their negative and dysfunctional issues. Many of these patients had previously exhibited spontaneous and abrupt feelings of anger, fear, sadness, loneliness, hyper-vigilance and even co-dependent enablement.
The next time you experience one of these emotions and you cannot figure out where it came from perhaps it came before your physical birth. You may have had a detached mother or a scared one. You could have had a mother that did not want to get pregnant and resented the father. Maybe your mother was depressed and lonely. Hopefully, you had a happy and content mother who nurtured you in her heart and enjoyed having you in her life.
References
Gonzalez-Gonzalez, N. L., Suarez, M. N., Perez-Pinero, B., Armas, H., Domenech, E., & Bartha, J. L. (2006). Persistence of fetal memory into neonatal life. Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica, 85, 1160-1164. doi:10.1080/00016340600855854
Kolata, Gina (1984). Studying learning in the womb. Science, 225, 302-303. doi:10.1126/science.6740312
Northrup, C. (2005). Mother-daughter wisdom. New York, NY: Bantam Books.
Dr.Sam:
Concerning Emotional Trauma in the Womb-
At age 12,had figured out why my gut feelings of not belonging or not being wanted..for years… or of being adopted came into my head…because,that’s when my mother let me know that she and my father had never expected to have kids, as he had been told by the army Dr that he couldn’t and she didn’t want them. She got pregnant with me the first month of marriage, and my father turned into a jealous maniac, thinking the milkman was visiting her while he was at work, etc etc.
Can imagine that really made my mother have some major hormones being released into the womb.
When I was born, and looked just like his sisters, blonde with blue eyes, even though both my parents had raven black hair and brown eyes, he stopped being quite so paranoid..but only after his mother told him of that resemblance.lol
Felt the different treatment by both parents, especially after my two brothers were born. I was no one’s favorite. My mother’s fav was the first brother,with black hair and blue eyes- and my father’s was the younger brother, as he got his black haired, brown eyed son.So, I learned to nurture myself with being out in nature,having pets, and found a heavenly Father who loved me just as I was.
Know I was dyslexic and A.D.D.
Was just diagnosed last yr, at age 62, with bipolar II PTSD, and Social Anxiety Disorder. However, figure these were also brought on by the very violent early home life witnessed, being kidnapped at age 15. Developed agoraphobia but didn’t know what it was called back then, in the early 60’s, but “treated” myself by gradually going outside until I could start attending high school again.It took one year to do.
Then,, later having a violent marriage, and then kids’ father kidnapping them. Then, while starting to live my life, while depressed over all that, was sexually attacked twice, within a 10 yr span..which made me lay off dating. Met a man through church, and married after two yrs, but that should’ve been annulled, as he was not at all what he appeared to be.That turned violent, as he returned to drugs and alcohol and tried to get me into sex orgies and drugs. I had to leave the state for my safety.
I became homeless,after not being able to find a job, as hoped.
Also began living in Salvation Army’s women’s center, and that’s when I began having a hallucination of the wrought iron fence being so hot that it had heat waves emanating from it..it was quite hectic living there…but found a place to go for psychiatric evaluation, besides Parkland Hospital, in Dallas, where I lived- and wound up at a wonderful place,LifeNet- that let me know they could help me with housing,and meds, and treatment- if I didn’t do drugs or alcohol. I never did drugs, but sometimes imbibed but didnt want to end up like my mother, who died from alcoholism at age 45.
Oh, also: Have reconnected with my four kids, now that they’re grown, we’ve met on facebook. Three out of the four have been diagnosed with bipolar.Only one takes meds.Two daughters claim their father molested them during the years they lived with him. I know Bipolar runs on their side of the family. My younger brother has been diagnosed with bipolar I. Fairly sure my kids’ father is a narcisstic personality/possibly even sociapathic or borderline ..he shows absolutely no remorse. His uncle passed away, and so he left his 2nd wife and married his aunt. ??? For a while my two daughters who were molested said how gross of him. but now they’ve “friended” him on facebook! I don’t know what to think.
Guess my hormones were busy drenching the womb back then,on all my pregnancies, because that marriage was frought with much anxiety.He was doing alcohol,drugs,and having affairs,with men and women. I stayed way too long.
So now, I’m on meds, in my own HUD apt, with mainly peaceful surroundings, and doing what’s required to keep all this going. Obviously need more counselling, huh? lol
Does any of this help you research-wise?
Cherie Crisp
Cherie,
I must say that you certainly have had one “hell” of a life! Thank you for sharing your story. Most of us have different places where we see the light. For some it is sooner and for others, later. Some never see the light. It looks like you’ve been seeing light. I celebrate that with you. Each one of us are beggars. It is that some of us don’t realize it or won’t admit it. We are all looking for “bread.”
Again, thanks for sharing your story on my web site. I hope it can be of tremendous encouragement showing a person who has not given up.
God bless,
Dr. Sam
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Ana Sierra said,
July 30, 2010 @ 4:52 pmWhat is your treatment approach in such cases? How do you determine this is the cause?